What you really ask for has its appropriate answer and realizationprocess somewhere in the Universe.
“Ask and you will receive, knock and
the door will be opened to you” are not only words that are taught in the
Sunday, Saturday, Friday or whatever day of the week schools. These are a true
reality. And the more you begin to understand this process of causality between asking, wishing and
receiving, the more you will understand the apparently inexistent causality in some cases that we do call
coincidence.
The scientific attempt to explain what
coincidence really is, is called “Synchronicity”. This term was apparently
first introduced by Carl Jung in the 20s, though some other scientist tried to
explain this concept before him, like this zoologist who explained the occurrence
of coincidences by a sort of repetitive cycle of situations destined to “gather identical things and people”.
On his side, Carl Jung studied and
explained this as the result of some occurring events that first seem unrelated
in terms of causality and that can’t be explained, at least with the existing means.
Yet, there is an apparent simultaneity between the events in the sense that
they seem to have a identical purpose.
Synchronicity is a result of the Natural Life Process.
In the word synchronicity, there are
the Greek roots sun (with) and khronos (times), which then give a
better idea of what coincidence are made of: gathering and time. But here is
the Cambridge dictionary definition of synchronicity: the happening by chance of two or more related or similar events at the same time. And another non-sourced definition: simultaneous
occurrence of events which appear significantly related but have no discernible
causal connection.
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| Synchronicity is the result of the Natural Life Process. Credit image: Pixabay. |
James Redfield, author of the
Celestine prophecy, dig deep into this concept as well, giving it a spiritual
dimension, and relating it to an earthly mission that each individual is meant
to achieve. In his definition of this concept, synchronicity is nothing but a
Universal sent guide to lead to the fulfillment of this mission.
In a more pragmatic version, you
have a Natural Life Process made out of cycles, vibrations, particles. This
Natural Life Cycle is also made out of causality and of certain complementarily.
In this purpose, you have a billion of complementary existing situations and
things and thoughts: female and male, light and darkness, cold and heat … as
well as need and the existence of what
might match this need in the nature. This Natural Life Process is also made out of
logics but most of all it is made out of common sense. This is why when a
living being is hungry, it looks for food, when the climate is too hot or too
cold, it looks for a warmer or cooler environment, and the example of this kind
are numerous. And no matter how human beings try to complicate it over
centuries through deep philosophical, religious or conceptual approaches, this Natural Life Process has always been, is
and will always be of the purest and most implacable logic and common sense.
In its very basic approach, whatever you need or look for naturally has
its answer somewhere in the nature and in the Universe.
Universe helps those who help themselves.
But now, in the basic common sense
which composes this Natural Life Process, there is the concept of efforts. In this concept we all as living
beings, have our own efforts to make before getting or receiving what we are
looking for. It is when you go shopping to get the food that you will need in
the coming hours or when you stand up and go to the kitchen to feed yourself.
This is also when some animals are hibernating or flying on hundred miles to
for hotter climate.
If the Universe has the answer to
any question and some proposals of realization to some quests, these are our
parts of efforts that it will never do in our place. In this optic, as far as
our earthly mission and personal goals are concerned, our efforts consist is
first identifying the nature of our mission (mainly what we are meant to do, to
become and to bring to humanity through a personal, social or professional way)
and second, it consists in thinking about the strategy to fulfill it. There is
a third and important step which consists in “doing-as-if”. None of these three
capital steps is more important than the other one, but actually the “doing-as-if”
step is the one that triggers all the rest. It is the step which gives
the signal to our brain that it is now time to open the doors towards what we
looked for and to move into higher gear.
All the rest is the Universe’s part. There still are to in-between
personal efforts we need to provide though: 1) learning to read the signs and
2) seizing the opportunity that the signs tried to bring us.
Doing-as-if.
This is the triggering step because in
doing-as-if, you symbolically tell your brain that you are stepping in. No matter if it is not for real, the brain doesn’t
really make the difference. When it sees that something engaged towards one direction,
its works is to execute it fully with all the possible means existing. And this
is where both your brain (the two hemispheres) and the Universe work on
together, your brain as the Executive Manager looking for the tools, the ways
and the means, and the Universe, as a giant resource of it all, sends you
back through your brain, through your feelings and intuition, the direction and
the indications. Now, there is something additional besides this that the
Universe is sending, and this is what we call coincidences.
Now, I say Universe when it could be
God, Allah, Krishna or any other Supreme Universal Power you are in deep
accordance and connection with.
Actually, to say it in the shortest
way, coincidences are the result of a deep conscious or unconscious question or
request. These are more than simple signs. Coincidences often make
us feel somewhat of deeply troubled at the moment. These are the moment we
should ask ourselves what do this coincidences answer to, what is the message
it gives us. Now, being aware of this fact is not enough.
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| Coincidences are the result of a deep conscious or unconscious quest. Credit image: Pixabay. |
Little aside concerning dreams and coincidence.
Now, I am a big sleeper, hence a big
dreamer. And I dream of people I know and of people I don’t know (when my brain
plays it scenarist). I have dreamt of situations I lived and of some I never
did. And I always find it exciting when waking up, to understand the meanings
of these dreams I made. By the way, know that the dreams also are a mean for your brain to show you an
indication, to bring you some answers or to catch your attention on
something. It is one of the available communication means of your brain when it
tries to communicate with you, believe it or not.
Now, making premonitory (which is my
case) are not what explain the coincidences, at least I do not think so. For
instance, there are sometimes when the dreams I make about some people seem so
real than when waking up, I have the impression to just really come out of the
situation I just dreamt of. And these dreams often stay in my mind for days. There
are times when, the dreams are so obsessing during the day that I often plan to
call the concerned person... depending on the relationship I have with the
person, I might call immediately or later, knowing that sometimes calling
someone (especially from the opposite sex and especially if this is someone I
am not necessarily in close relationship with) to inform them that you dreamt
of them, might have the embarrassing consequences that you guess. But what
happens is that sooner or later and in a way or another, I get in contact with
them in the coming days. And then the dreams I made about them make perfect
sense. It was either because something had happened in the period I dream of
them, or because there was something I needed to know about them in a certain
way. And this “something” was often related to my personal goals or questions.
Now is it necessary to make the difference
between the person in your dream as the person s/he is in the real life, with something
about her/his evolvement or situation that is related to your inner quest, and
between the person in your dreams which represent or symbolize something to
you. I guess the difference is in the way you feel when awakening up, but you
actually feel the difference.
Synchronicity: how it works.
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| Synchronicity requires a certain deep connection to oneself and to nature. Credit image: Pixabay. |
Well, I am tempted to say that
everything around us actually is synchronicity. I am deeply convinced that besides the “surprising” coincidences,
there always is in each discussion,
fact, situation, email, book, whatever, a sign, an indication towards our
personal goals which might not be as troubling as coincidence as we know it,
but which is anyway meant to give us an indication. Our deep desires and wishes
are linked to a place, to some people to some situations and there a millions
way to get there and to reach these people. Coincidences as we know it are only
a few parts of them.
Now, note that when discussing or
hearing successful or important people telling the way they began their
business, adventure or story, there always are some situations of coincidence,
be it in the choice of the direction or in the people they closely were in
interaction with.
How does it work? Well, it works in
the simplest possible way. When you have a deep quest concerning something in
your life, and when you “clear” your mind enough to make room for the coming
answers and indications, they come in various forms including synchronicity.
This is magic and terrific to the
point that when it happens, one often takes some seconds to consider the
possibility of what has happened. It might be people that you meet “by chance”,
occasions, situations, etc. which all are linked in a way or another to your
inner quest.
What happens next is that you need
to take the contact with these situations. For instance, if it is someone, no
matter how important s/he might be in your opinion, synchronicity made you meet
her/him for your reasons, so go
beyond your fears and hesitations. If it is someone you dreamt of, give them a
little call even just to take some news from them.
But the rule N°1 is to go to the edge
of the coincidence and to deeply understand the meaning of this situation in
your personal life. To what state of mind does this situation bring you back
to? What does it mean according to its evolvement in the real life? Who are
these people you met by coincidence? What are they or what do they represent to
you. What symbols do they have as far as your inner goals are concerned, etc.?
But know that since there are some
notions of gathering and time in the concept of synchronicity, these
moments are some vehicles to bring you back some choices and information
concerning your life and future. And I say bring back because since Life is
about cycles, there already were some previous related or similar situations
that you missed as signs before. And following the deepness of your quest and
the availability of your brain that you give to it, you might whether see more
and more of them or not at all if you just don’t give to the events the mind
availability that they require.
The mind availability is here very important in the deal recognizing and
understanding the messages requires a very deep inner connection.
So learn to free your mind from whatever is not connection to the nature. Take
some regular time to keep anchored to
your immediate environment without going further than what your body feels,
sees and smells at the present moment. Remember that communicating with the nature
(which makes you the gift of synchronicity) is giving it attention (the same
way you would do with a person). And giving it attention is nothing but fully
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