The best of our lives is at the other edge of the fear.

Each step of the success (or of a best part of your life) is preceded by a turbulent stormy period. Because this is part of the Life and Success cycle.

Thus, when going through hard times, the first and maybe only question you should ask yourself is: “ to what new step of my personal achievement and success does this hard time want to lead me to?”.

At these times, storm will no longer be a storm but a GPS voice leading you to your next level of success.

The cave men families used to lock themselves up in the caves at night in order to protect themselves from what they considered to be some devils of the night. These devil actually were the shadows of the trees swinging with the wind under the starry night…

Millenia later, in spite of technological progress and extendable periods of study, the functionning may have evolved in ots form, but at basis remains more or less similar for many of us. Our unexplored reality make our thoughts and beleifs prevent us from living, not only our dreams but our entire life.

Playing it safe and warm looks an easier thing to do than trying, but it is destructive on the run.

As a matter of fact, staying in the midst of darkness imagining all sort of demonic appearances moving outside is somehow easier than taking the (difficult we must say) risk of trying to know, to measure and to understand the functioning of the threats.

I actually am in the accurate position to talk about this since I am what can (could) be considered as a “scary coward”. A simple door slamming in the silence or even in the noise is enough to make me startle.

I remember this time where I spent almost two months of my life living in panic after some prowlers roamed in our yard. I remember these evenings staying petrified as and when of the night coming. The big slumber lover that I was, who appreciated any occasion to take a moment of rest, finally came to dread them. I remember having been unable of any move anytime I heard a strange sound which sometimes was nothing but the dripping of a badly turned off tap.

Petrified and mentally paralyzed. This is how I was for weeks, emaciated by successive sleepless nights since I only authorized myself to sleep at dawn, when I thought that the danger has passed.
But there finally came this human burst, this sort of conscience and of survival instinct. There was this thing or maybe thought that seemed to yell in my inner self “You can definitively not spend the rest of your days in this state, can you?”.

And then there is this sudden burst of consciouness about ourself...as powerfull as waterfalls.

From the moment we accept to hear and to listen to this inner voice, the writing on the wall is clear. The Life-ownership process is unconsciously launched, guiding us to a less destructive mindset. And then, from reflexions to positives thoughts, the attitude begins to change, as well the reality.

And then, our whole Universe changes its position.

 From this starting point, the fearful victim jumping to the ceiling at the slightest noise, turns out to be a fierce savage beast taking the lead and going ahead. The least sound that once paralyzed now pushes forward to action, to a quick and efficient mental and physical preparation, leading you to organize mentally and physically a hundred strategies in a second. But most of all, there is this furious glance specifif to the peope who suddenly decide to never let themselves be pushed arounf anymore.

I think that of all the kinds of people existing in the world, this is the category of those you’d better not go after. People who suddenly decide to take their lives into their hands after a certain period of mental or physical sufferance, fed-up sick of this state, often turn to become an extremely powerful machine running with the energy of rage (or despair) which makes them invincible whatever the circumstances may be.

The fact is that everything performing, profitable, magic, interesting, productive, actually is at the other edge of the fear. When we at last find this courage to face this fear, whatever time or energy it will have taken, we feel powerfully reboosted and we then simply take consciousness of the fact that EVERY THING IS POSSIBLE!

After the rebirth, there comes this impression making you feel like if everything was suddenly possible.

The effect of this inner rebirth.

 If we have been able to achieve it from our fearful nature then we can achieve it again in some other circumstances. And so can any anyone else else where in the world. 

And this is when the magic operates.

This is when these people that we once considered as higher authority now simply appear as they really are, which is to say as life actors, the way we also are. This is when these projects that we dreamt of but that we constantly postponed because of this unconscious fear of realizing them for real become a pleasant challenge, an exciting game to start. This is also when we begin to reject these people, things and situations that have sort of imprisoned us, and which now look to our eyes like toxic waste to get rid of urgently, and to burry in the depths of the earth.

I am a living proof of this. I never would have had the chance to live for real some of these situations that only existed in my dreams (knowing there was no material or mental favorable condition to it at the moment), if I hadn’t decided to identify my fears, to face and to go beyond them.

I suppose that the real Life is created at these moments of our lives. After all, we are only reproducing one of our best performing. Though we can’t remember it, this performing allowed us to go forward and to discover the real Life, leaving the warmth and protective motherly bellies, in order to explore the world.

The fact is that if we did it then at this most fragile moment of our existence when we neither had the slightest asset, knowledge of things or experience, we do have today all the tools, experience, strength and potential to be able to do it again. ©

Cornélia ANDRIAMASY RABEMANANJARA

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