Everybody -or almost everybody- in the world was created at the outset with a stock of assets. In this logical
process, we therefore are both our own warehouse and suppliers of these
precious mental commodities and mindset that winners feed themselves with.
No one has neither taught
us how to open our warehouse nor how to extract these useful gifts from our inner stock. It thus, is harder for a majority to draw on these precious savings of
ours which we are essential to help us prepare our life race.
Now,
Question: If
no one showed us, then how do these people (which have not been told how to use
it either) open their reserves themselves, take from their stocks and get what
they need to go forward?
Answer 1: I do not know.
Probable answer 1: They have been distributed
this “thing” apart (that some others didn’t get), and which must be called
courage or intuition.
Probable answer 2: not knowing, they simply “searched”
for a way. And while searching, they fell on this thing which
looked like an inner warehouse.
Probable answer 3: maybe because lacking the
things that other people have (money, comfort, parents, etc.), they used all
the external resources that they had for their living, and while drawing again on
what was left they finally explored the inner ones and heard the “toc” noise of
a full reserve that they hurried to explore and to open, and which actually happened
to be the success ingredients reserve.
We all need love, concern and support to build ourselves, but in some cases the lack of this precious concern is the very thing that pushes us even further to reach our life goals. |
Based on these probable answers, one can easily
imagine that people having all their lives everything they ever looked for,
didn’t get the opportunity to draw in this inner reserve which thus is existing
but useless because they never felt the utility of exploring it. I admit that
again, this might be a very simplistic way of concluding things, but it has
though a high percentage of truth. And this unused reserve becomes like any
other unused thing, dusty, atrophied, and in some cases, rotten from the inside.
And the same things happen with any other thing, food, muscles, brain, heart,
soul…
This is why I fiercely recommend you to explore
and use each one of your resources, especially the inner ones, in order to
develop even more their capacities.
This also brings me to the very logical
conclusion that the propensity to success is not a priori linked to money,
fame, to position, to the social class, to the regular features of a face, to
the softness of spiciness of a thigh or to any other external factor.
Run as far as you can from any person trying to
convince you that the success can be acquired by these means. And as for these
people pretending that they have acquired their success that way, be certain
that this success will not last. Because this is not what success feeds itself with.
It rather requires a desire for change, a real interest in the matter, efforts,
vision, passion, tries, failures, risks taking, faith, creativity, originality….
whatever you may want, expect fame, money and beauty.
At last, here is something that allows everybody to
start from a basis of equality. Or at least it should.
Our inner resources increase in value as and when of their use and utility. |
And this is leading to another crucial
observation about these things pushing us forward. As and when of my reflexion
and observing moments, I have come to the conclusion that the two forces
pushing us forward (or giving us the envy to go forward) in life usually are:
1-
Lacking someone (parents, friends,
support, etc.), something crucial (chance, money, job, etc.), lacking favorable
circumstances, but also lacking choices. This is what Bob Marley described in
his smoky wise quote “you never know how strong you are until being strong is
the only choice you have”.
2-
Discovering people, things, situations…
Now, in
respect to the Mathematic Laws of Life (which by the way are the fairest and
more impartial ones of the Universe), there is nothing you lack, nothing vacuum
or empty that isn’t filled in a way or another since nature abhors a vacuum and
while.
We then are all placed one day, in front of some
special people who have a vital role to play in our lives in a way or another.
As we all confronted to essential situations and circumstances that we consciously
or unconsciously called for and which are related to some conscious or
unconscious life goals.
Since, without entering into esoteric, psychological
and psychiatric aspects, the Unconscious is this powerful internal dimension which
is made out of our deep desiderata and which, acting as a loyal faithful friend or as a loving parent, places us is spite of us,
on the way of these people and situations that actually are destined to help us
build our personal story. They are only meant to
boost or to awaken our desire to change and our wish to succeed.
But this faithful friend or loving parent only
answers to calls and solicitations. It only executes when you give it the order
to. And the only person in a position to make this call is your conscious mind.
In other words, this person is YOU. ©
Extract of "La route des Sommets est celle du Bon Sens", Cornélia ANDRIAMASY R. (under publication).
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