And I am writing this from a winter
climate (it is winter in my country until August) though, expecting for the noon
temperature to warm me up a little. But, you could either say or write it from
the polar cold of the North Pole or from the rainy London, the “good times back”
would still come back if you ask them to.
Have you ever heard of Calimero?
Not the one from the Italian and
Japanese cartoon actually (which is a black chick and who’s story is rather
different), but the French cartoon Calimero, a baby swan raised by error in the
midst of yellow ducklings. As a baby swan, Calimero was black, thus different
from his brothers who would mock him regularly just like their other friends
and father did. Considered as the lame duck of his family and village, he would
fiercely stick to his dreams of being able to fly up high like these beautiful
big white birds that he saw in the sky. His dreams, his unsuccessful attempts
to fly and his difference put him through a certain period of humiliation, of injustice
and tears, until he decided with his best friend Pilepoil, to leave this
village where he obviously couldn’t find his place.
As and when of his tribulations and
new adventures, he finally grew up, followed a group of swan migrating in the
south, looked more and more like a swan (which he actually was), and finally
became the Prince of the Swan group. And one day at the end of the migration
period, he decided to come back to his old village in order to show his mother
(who was the only one that deeply loved and trusted him) how able he was to fly
high in the sky. When he arrived in the village, everybody, his brothers,
friends, teacher, father … now had a different
way of looking at him. Not only was he a handsome swan Prince, but he also was
as courageous hero since he actually also saved his whole village from the
poacher.
The “Good times are back” period.
The "good times are back" period brings this same feeling-home appeasement that you feel when looking at the sunset. |
The passage that hit me the most was
when Calimero left his village with his best friend, neither knowing what
direction to take nor how to survive in unknown land, yet, not wondering at all
about it. From the moment he left his
village, life suddenly tasted freer and he deeply appreciated it like a joyful
carefree baby swan, singing, discovering things and feeling released from tears
and feeling able.
This was the “Good Times Are Coming
Back” period.
And this is also how it works in the
real life.
“Good Times Are Coming Back” period looks
pretty much like spring time, holidays or just period of carefree mind, like if
all the possibilities were opened to you, accessible and right at your
fingertips. It brings this feeling of appeasement and of "feeling home".
This “Be happy” mindset IS the
clearance.
We often think of this carefree
mindset as of an “ideal” state, which is wrong. It is NOT an ideal state but the
NATURAL one. And this natural state is the one that generates this energy that actually
make us achieve something and reach our goals. This is the kind of state you
are in when you take big resolutions for your life that are meant to be
realized.
So the job here does not consist in
learning to do difficult things. It consists in pushing oneself to get in this particular
state of well-being and to use the energy that it generates to formulate
clearly our life goals. Because this is when all your beliefs (especially the
ones related to fear and to the feeling guiltiness) are stunned and all the
elements in your body, mind and soul are joining their hands and acting in
synergy to take you to where you wish to be.
This will not happen physically and in
a second or in a single try.
Although it happens that few tries
are sufficient for some lucky people strong enough in their minds and beliefs. But,
it generally happens progressively and the means to build your life dream will
come through the shape of dreams (I really suggest to give it more importance
since this is the way the other part of the brain tries to communicate with you
through symbols) possibilities, coincidences, opportunities… and all of these
little things that we actually see only when our mind is free from negative
charges and when it is opened to the change you called for.
Think of what you did best.
There are a hundred ways to put
oneself in this state of positive energy, meditation, prayers, Qi Qong, Tai Chi,
helping others... But you could also do it in the simplest way, like taking a
moment to be alone in a quiet or pleasant place for a while, listening to a
soft music or not listening to any music at all. You could then take a long deep
breath, inhale and exhale deeply, as deeply as possible for some seconds and while
closing your eyes, you could think of all these things that you have achieved
and succeeded in your life, all of these little victories over life and over adversity
which you are proud of, and which may feed your mind if you allow it to.
You ARE the Swan! Take off and reach the highest! |
Remember that if you did it then, you can do it again today, with
or without charges, with or without possibilities, with or without support,
with or without experience, with or without anything; charges , experience,
support, possibilities are just details in this context. What is not a detail
is the way you need to feel at that moment, being deeply connected to these little
victories, to your perspectives and connected to how capable you actually are. Let the emotions rise, let the tears flow if
they will, do not hold them back, do not restrain what should be at the moment
a pure natural process, let your face smile as you see and feel your dreams and
perspectives as if they were at your fingertips and as if you were living them
at the moment. You could chase any potential feeling of fear, anger or guilt with
a loud “Get away!“ scream.
And you could allow yourself at the
moment to be totally disconnected from material or mind constraints and to keep
connected to nothing else but to this vision and feeling. You could simply call
back the energy of these “good times” and feel it happening in this part of
your belly. You could hear it rising in your lungs, you could make it turn into
a gratefulness thank to God or to the Universe for making it happen for real,
and you could let your eyes and glance show the world that you are heading to
the land of possibility, where this best part of your life is waiting for you. Not
only because you deserve it, but because this IS the way it should be.
Like Calimero, you have evolved by
error in a world of ducks (I LOVE ducks though) convincing you that money,
working hours, tiring boss, conventionality and mediocrity were a life standard.
But you could decide that you ARE a swan!
So learn to fly away from what had
always weighed on your shoulders since then, take-off and reach the highest! ©
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