Solution for hard times: roll up your sleeves and rebuild immediately.

Sometimes, when facing our life storms, the Life Natural process allows and advises us to let go. As a matter of fact, it is crucial at these moments to let the emotional release go its way. 

This step is important because it allows us to focus on ourselves during the hard time in order to “cleanse” our spirit, our heat and sometimes our souls, from these negative energies.

Trying to keep these bad energies is not only absurd and counterproductive, but it also is destructive. This emotional release step is thus necessary, beneficial and repairing.

Now, remaining too long in this phase beyond the natural period planed for it, can lead to the opposite process and make the positive cleansing system turn into an insane and conscious or unconscious victimization and self pity stage. Instead of letting the wound be repaired naturally, the complaining and self-flagellation mindset keeps the wound wide open and conducive to infection.

You can either choose to see the surfing opportunity or the dangerous waves.

Thus, as wise Salomon said, there is a time for everything. There is a time for crying and complaining, and another one for rolling up sleeves and for reconstruction after the storm.  

And the sooner this reconstruction period, the greater chances to succeed. 

Why is that? Well, because Life is about consecutive cycles that come one after the other. And in this succession of cycles also comes a succession of different energies, both positive and negative.

These energies follow a flow that can be ascending upon the circumstances, before going back to the bottom-down. 

And the best period to launch something, especially reconstruction, is when these energies are at their upper most level. When these energies fall down again, construction is not impossible, but harder to achieve because one needs t find the way to make them climb higher.

These energies are not only at the ascendant level when we are feeling good. A great pain, a big frustration, a big anger, etc. are as favorable to the ascendance of these energies, as a big happiness period. Actually, most of the greats conscious or unconscious resolutions of this world realized in this world have been hatched during hard times.

You alone can steer your life boat.

You are thus, your own Che Guevara, your own life hero and architect. You and you alone can steer your life vessel. You alone can feel if the swell is heavy of not.

Now, if you can look at your hard periods as if these were stepping stones to reach higher grounds instead of seeing them as a “failure”, if you can see in these huge life waves some beautiful waves to surf on, then you can save yourself from drowning. And more than this, you can have the uppermost luxury mindset to jump ever higher. ©

Good waves!

Cornélia ANDRIAMASY RABEMANANJARA

Make It Happen!Mada

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