Sometimes, when
facing our life storms, the Life Natural process allows and advises us to let
go. As a matter of fact, it is crucial at these moments to let the emotional
release go its way.
This step is important because it allows us to focus on
ourselves during the hard time in order to “cleanse” our spirit, our heat and
sometimes our souls, from these negative energies.
Trying to keep
these bad energies is not only absurd and counterproductive, but it also is destructive.
This emotional release step is thus necessary, beneficial and repairing.
Now, remaining too
long in this phase beyond the natural period planed for it, can lead to
the opposite process and make the positive cleansing system turn into an
insane and conscious or unconscious victimization and self pity stage.
Instead of letting the wound be repaired naturally, the complaining and
self-flagellation mindset keeps the wound wide open and conducive to infection.
You can either choose to see the surfing opportunity or the dangerous waves.
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Thus, as wise Salomon
said, there is a time for everything. There is a time for crying and
complaining, and another one for rolling up sleeves and for reconstruction
after the storm.
And the sooner
this reconstruction period, the greater chances to succeed.
Why is that? Well,
because Life is about consecutive cycles that come one after the other. And in
this succession of cycles also comes a succession of different energies, both
positive and negative.
These energies
follow a flow that can be ascending upon the circumstances, before going back
to the bottom-down.
And the best period to launch something, especially
reconstruction, is when these energies are at their upper most level. When
these energies fall down again, construction is not impossible, but harder to
achieve because one needs t find the way to make them climb higher.
These energies are
not only at the ascendant level when we are feeling good. A great pain, a big
frustration, a big anger, etc. are as favorable to the ascendance of these
energies, as a big happiness period. Actually, most of the greats conscious or
unconscious resolutions of this world realized in this world have been hatched
during hard times.
You alone can steer your life boat. |
You are thus, your own Che Guevara, your own life hero and architect. You and you alone can steer your life vessel. You alone can feel if the swell is heavy of not.
Now, if you can
look at your hard periods as if these were stepping stones to reach higher
grounds instead of seeing them as a “failure”, if you can see in these huge
life waves some beautiful waves to surf on, then you can save yourself from
drowning. And more than this, you can have the uppermost luxury mindset to jump
ever higher. ©
Good waves!
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