Love is all.

Love: a powerful parameter of positive change.

We are not only talking about this thrilling emotion that stirs one’s stomach and heart at the thought of the “loved one”. We are also talking about this other less burst-flashy but though very deep love, this affection, real concern and care that actually brings this conscious or unconscious feeling of warm security which doesn’t only occur from the love and affection that we get from others but also (most of all) from the one that we give (and owe) to ourselves.

I used to say and to think that the human brain was among the most powerful parameter of change and achievement. But love is more important in the sense that it is what that activates work of the brain in most cases. Not only does it have the surprising capacity to heal, to calm or to repel fear, but most of all it is a capital parameter of the success process and represents one of the first solutions for mind and soul issues.  

As a matter of fact, there are in this world, without this necessarily been exposed to public information, million desperate cases that have been saved thanks to a sincere supporting love. Adopted children, people at the bottom of their despair or simply people discovering the marvel of parenting, have seen their lives and destiny taking a 180° turn forward towards something they never thought they would have the chance to live one day, simply because of a mental lifting word, a concerned touch or any other manifestation of real and pure love and affection that at the end, boosted their self confidence and self esteem enough to give them the willingness to go ahead.

Love and success.

Love: as warm, powerful and vibrant as the colors of the sun.

And, love is involved in each stage of success. Audacity, satisfaction, passion, ambition, pleasure or victory do all involve a certain aspect of love. I would even say actually that in some cases love IS the thing pushing them ahead. This is particularly visible when people fall in love. But apart from this chemical process boosting the dopamine, endorphin and oxytocin rate in the body (which procure this feeling of need, satisfaction and pleasure), there is this indescribable phenomenon which makes one more powerful and able to go beyond some basic human reactions like fear, and the beyond impossibility. I must note though that an intense anger or a raging will to survive or to overcome/preserve some people/situations, actually procure the same daring mindset in front of difficulties.

The bad effects of lacking love.

From a Natural Life Process point of view, almost all of the cases of conflicts, hurt, pain, and extreme negative situations etc. that mankind has been through, result from lacking love. There are a million examples that can illustrate this and all of them when deconstructed, point out at the end of the day, this capital thing missing that caused a sort of negative ending domino effect.

I will just name one of them which can sometimes cause particularly perverse effects: jealousy. What actually happens in the head and heart of a jealous person is a complex mixture of fear, anguish, hatred, envy… and admiration though this last be often buried very quickly by the other feelings.

Now, a jealous person DOES NOT hate, envy or admire your possessions, your girl or boy friend, you way of being, etc. But he/she will hate, admire or envy the attention, love and admiration that these material, physical, mental, spiritual things bring in his/her perception. They are not really hurt by the external manifestation of these situations actually, but rather how they allow the ones who possess them to be admired, loved and get more attention while the jealous person won’t. So unconsciously, it is not about the means but about the effects.

Globally, lacking love, be it in terms of people’s love or most of all, in terms of the one that you owe to yourself, leads to some surrealistic manifestations and behavior which are nothing but the unconscious permanent need of the same things: love and attention (including the most important part of it, which is feeling appreciated for who we are).  

Because we ALL were born to get love, health, happiness and abundance. This IS our natural state! The one putting our brain on the right alternation of wave frequencies which correspond to the PERFECT LIFE BALANCE we ALL are supposed to live and to know. Now love (from others and from us) is what entertains physical and mental health which then entertains well-being and self confidence, which on their side, develop performance and attract abundance. And spirituality completes the circle.

   

One (among some billion other) scientific evidences.

Some researchers make on some rats some years ago, have shown the role of love and affection in crisis and extreme situation like addiction (knowing that this is definitely duplicable in all the situations). The reports of the study have pointed out that drugged rats set aside from their groups would develop addiction to the drugs, while only very few of the drugged rats left among their group would stop at the drugged food when going besides it. The morality is that when amidst its group, sharing affection with its fellows, the drugged rat had higher chances to stop addiction.

You will tell me that rats are probably among the most sensitive and affectively dependant animals of the world, permanently looking for attention and affection, and able to let themselves die when being separated from their masters.

Well, humans are not very different. During the Vietnam War, about 70% of the American soldiers sent on the ground needed to use drugs to be able to sustain the cruelty of what they saw there. At the end of the War, the American families somehow worried about the return of their soldiers, fearing to have a nation of junkies. Yet, some reports on the matter (AND the reality) have shown that a great majority of the soldiers naturally dropped addiction once back in the midst of their loving family.    

These love wave frequencies.

These moments of your life when the love you give yourself makes you take positive decisions.

If someone’s love can bring this state of thrill and excitement, if people’s love, admiration or affection can make you feel this sort warm secure feeling, then know that your love for yourself has the power of a rocket. Now of course the process is unconscious because you don’t “fall in love” with yourself at the same speed you fall in love with someone. And anyway, this is not about “falling in love” but about “appreciating oneself”.

To give you an idea of what it looks like, just remember the times when you took some deep decisions concerning your life. Usually, these kinds of “resolution” happen after a big emotional shock like reject, pain, mental tiredness… There is this sort of inner revival that makes one like jump back on his feet after this period of tears and sadness. There is a sort of regain of energy, this bounce back that actually is so powerful that the life decision that you take at these moments are a start block pushing you forward.  

This is when your brain is on this wave frequency which actually is stimulated by the love that you gave yourself. Now parents have an idea of what I am talking about since it looks like this mixture of alertness, willingness, ferocity, attention and love that we feel when we try to protect our children from something or from someone that we consider dangerous. I thought that there was no similar power on earth that the love of a mother for her children, but actually there is. It is the love that you give yourself after the storm. Something/someone inside you tries to protect you and this is so strong in terms of energy at that moment that it puts every cell of your body to contribution.  

I need to mention that this is nothing related to selfishness which is a negative and insane feeling related to disrespect. It rather is a matter of “Consciousness” and of Natural Life Balance between what you used to spend outside before, which is now being reinvested inside, for best. ©

 Cornélia ANDRIAMASY RABEMANANJARA

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