The way you think or act is the way you treat your body

A fit body leads to a fit mind

Ever since I was a child, I have heard this famous quote about how a healthy soul and a healthy mind required a healthy body. As a majority of us I guess, there have been since my childhood a thousand quotes of wisdom told by my parents which sounded nice indeed, but of which I never fully got the sense until I finally experienced some situations which would bring back the related quotes in my brain, getting me to a “So this is what it actually meant!” ecstasy.

What are quotes by the way but powerful thoughts arising from specific experienced situations that the experimenter resumed in some words in order to share these feelings and thoughts with some many others who are likely to be concerned by this same situation.

And if they invented and shared some quotes showing the causality between the body and the mind (not even talking about the soul), it is because this comes from the experience and from the understanding of this correlation and of the impacts that the breakage of this correlation might have on a whole life.

We intrinsically are one in three.

By essence, this is the way we came into this world and the way we are supposed to leave it at the end of our earthly journey. So obviously the way we organize our lives should consider these three fundamental aspects of our being. In reality, this is barely the case, only because we have not been raised in this concept.

What happens is that, since these three main constitutive parts of ourselves are deeply connected and interdependent, we end up in our lives with all sorts of inexplicable and /or incurable diseases in spite of all tries of medications, with all sorts of mental disorders and uneasiness, because we only care about one aspect or two of our being, leaving the other one(s) unconsidered, unvalorized and flawed.

Space, pure air, exercise and fun contribute to support health, mental health and soul. in their daily work.
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We thus are meant to evolve with and not against these three constitutive parts of ourselves, in order to reach what is supposed to be the human graal, namely a quasi regular state of well-being, satisfaction and happiness. I am sorry (or not) to say that the affirmations concerning pain and sufferance as integral part of a life are complete nonsense. Sufferance, just like  fear, doubt or any other negative feelings, are not meant to be an effective part of our mental life, the same way that diabetes, AIDS or tuberculoses are not meant to be an effective part of our physical functioning. I admit that we all go through some diseases sometimes in a life time, some of them being more serious than others, but the concept of accepting illness, constant need of something (related to a constant lack of something) or unhappiness as acceptable in a life on a quasi permanent basis, is as absurd to me as accepting to buy a new car with defaults, and keeping on using this car with these defaults pretexting that “this is life!”. We all go through deceit, pain or sorrow, and yes, this is meant to make us grow in some way. But this is a punctual mission. They are meant to make us grow, not to make us grow and live with it.

Again, human being, you and me, were conceived for happiness, for a free access of the basic and important things of life, for health and for self accomplishment. Whoever tells me the contrary in the name of the Holy Bible, the Torah or whatever, has definitely a mental issue balance.

And one of the simplest and most natural ways to achieve this natural state comes by respecting, by feeding and by maintaining these three integral parts of our being, our soul, our mind and our body.

Important note before talking health, mental health and well-being matters.

Before you imagine me feeding myself with juice of raw vegetables every day, following a vegan diet and exercising 3 times a day at the gym, I need to mention here that apart from my awareness about the matter, I love junk food, I smoke cigarettes, I like lounging in bed on week -ends instead of exercising, or drinking a glass of wine from time to time, and I am as fully epicurean as can be. But this is not in contradiction with a physical and mental healthy life at all. This doesn’t stop me from caring about my health and diet, the same way caring about my health and diet don’t stop me from appreciating these little pleasures of life. Life is not all black or white, it is a billion shades of colors J.

Because you know what? You do not need to make your life constraining to be happy of healthy. You just need to balance things in order to give to you self the care and maintenance you need while fully appreciate every little moment.

Tis is important to mention because I know a lot of people following a constraining diet and  life hygiene who yet are suffering anyway from diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, etc. And then I simply understood why: as long as the body and mind live under any kind of constraint, be it a positive one, they end up like any elements, cells or particle being kept too much under pressure, tired, emptied from their energy and essence. And this is the proof that health is directly linked to the mind. The best nutritionist will confirm that If you feel like having a piece of cake or chocolate during a slimming diet, JUST GO AHEAD! Enjoy yourself! Provided you do it in a balanced way respecting the fundamental nature and functioning of your body. Because when your brain receives the signal that you won’t deprive your body from anything, he feels relaxed, good and operational. When you deprive him, he stays on guard, under pressure, looking for what he can hold before the deprivation period. 

But again, you will never know the functioning of your body, of your mind or of anything else, if you do not take time to know about it as often as you can. And again, this implies you to spend a significant time with yourself, trying to know more about your way of functioning, your inner and outside disorders, etc. In other words, it needs you to love yourself and to be interested in you a little bit.

This is the point from which it all starts.

Love, pureness of the soul and respect of the person we are feed happiness.
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The 1 in 3 feeding and maintenance. .

Now, the above been said, here is how we should normally (I said normally) treat our 1 in 3 being.

We have been told since our childhood to care about the visible aspects of our being, and this is the body, in priority. Caring about the mind would eventually come later on, with some intellectual stimulating activities like reading, cross-wording, chessing, etc.

The soul aspect is often considered in the later life with the awareness and the consciousness arising. In the general opinion, it is normal to consider the soul aspect belatedly because this is something that you usually have access to only once you have cleared the mind and physical aspect. Knowing that this soul aspect is mostly revealed by life experience rather than by theory, why not?

If then we just focus on the two aspects of the body and mind, how can we be sure that we have it right in the way we feed and maintain them?

You don’t need to think long to answer this question. Just take your car for instance, and compare the way you treat it to the way you treat yourself. As I usually say, if you fill your car of dirty and inappropriate fuel or oil, there is no way you can expect it to be performing. Right?

Ok, so why do we feed ourselves with insanities and poison voluntarily, thinking and expecting from ourselves more performing, strength, energy etc.? (Just in case, kindly be redirected to the previous part related to the important note before talking health matters).

Though there are no specific or standard life hygiene rules (because we all are different with specific needs and particularities), there is a Natural Life ongoing Process made out of common sense and logic that concerns everyone of us.

In this logic, you should normally (again, I said normally) give to your mind and soul the same attention, treatment, consideration and maintenance that you give to this visible part of you which is you body.

For instance, can you easily tell the number of times a day that you cleanse your body (shower, bathing, brushing teeth, self caring, etc.). Now can you count the number of times you cleansed your mind from its toxins? I mean, how many times a day do you laugh, jog in the evenings (this cleanse the brain from its toxins), cry, pray or meditate, listen to some cooling music or do things that help you remove from your mind the dirt, negative feelings and information that you have accumulated during the day? I won’t even ask about the times you cleanse your soul (by the way Muslims seem to have a daily routine for this which is interesting if the ritual are done with willingness and not because the times requires it to, but this is a way like another to organize it all).

People seem to be repulsed by dirt and filth, or by dirty and filthy people, but they would hang on to the news every day, absorbing more and more mental dirt and poison without the slightest repulsion, and would consider their dirty thoughts in the biggest indifference .

And we could go on and on in this way with other similar questions like:

How many times a day do you feed your body? And how many times a day do you feed you mind with books, knowledge, positive information, new self growth development techniques, etc? And I won’t even ask about the number of times you feed your soul in a day.

How many times a day do you relax your body? And how many times a day do you relax your mind?

How many times did you already repair your body when it is damaged? And what attention do you give to your damaged mind and soul? What energy do you put in repairing them?

The point is not about having an answer to these second questions, but to realize the existence and the importance of this triad in our daily functioning.

Though not mentionned specifically, pleasure and fun are some capital aspects of a balanced life.
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How each part of our being is affected by the slightest change.

They say that you are what you eat. This couldn’t be truer. What you eat and how you lead the hygiene of your life plays a determinant role in the goals you wish to reach.

In the countryside of my island, in these remote areas far away from civilization, life is as balanced as can be: fruits and vegetables bio in most cases, pure air, long distance on foot from one sport to another (almost nobody owns any car or motorbike), as much space are required, etc. You know what? So are their mindsets and souls. Now I mean by "balanced diet" (somehow due to poverty not allowing the access to industrial food), a diet that would cause them no harm due to chemical and to multi-processed food, but the fact is that their diet remains unsufficient in term of nutriments and this generate several nutritionals deficiencies.

Gratuitous remark? Not sure.  What you feed your body with affect its basic functionning which then impacts on your general state and mood. What you feed your mind with affects your beliefs, thoughts and this also impacts on your behavior including your self control and your behavior concerning your diet.

Now, back to the example of the car, it is obvious for instance that driving with different tires (some new and some others older) would affect the functioning and mechanic of the whole machine, the same way different types of spark plugs (some new and some others older), would affect over time the good advancing of the car. Old pieces don’t match long with new ones and whenever one slightest piece of the car is damaged the whole mechanism of the car gets affected in the long run.

This is considered as logic for cars, but that we don’t give much consideration to when it comes to ourselves.

The slightest mental change of mood leads the whole inner machine to be affected in a complex and magical way you can’t even imagine.

Talking about change, know that whenever big resolutions are ahead in your life, it is normal to lack energy. Because change requires a big amount of energy and this is particularly the case when it comes to inner changes. Thus it draws all the available energy in your body and when there is not enough in stock, it leaves you totally flat tired. And when we consider that evolution is a change, we understand that in order to achieve some progressive life goals, we need to give it the energy it requires. And this involves to give the body the appropriate care and food, and to feed our minds and souls with the accurate context and elements that they need. Though the min is a very powerful tool, you can’t decently expect your sole mind to stand the change. Your body and soul are meant to collaborate with it all the way and this is why we need to let each parts of our beings to sustain each other in the progress process.

This is also why change requires an appropriate context and environment. As a smoker, there was a time when I decided to quit cigarettes, but this period occurred in winter. You know what, winters are not appropriate for quitting cigarettes, the same way these periods are not accurate to makes quit their diapers. So there are some down periods of life where the best way to reach change is to let go the time in order to gather more energy (when some other times it is necessary to go ahead immediately).

This is also why staying in your old environment will hardly help you to reach the change you are looking for. There is this necessity of leaving the context we are in because it rather pulls one down than up.

In conclusion, if you want to achieve a certain change, you first need to be ready for it. And to my sense, Motivation is the first and only factor of positive change. And being ready for it requires you to mobilize all the possible means that you have in possession. And the first ones are your mind, body and soul which need to comply with one another in terms of goal, they need to work together and not one against another, to the risk of creating the health and mental that are becoming the daily reality of our modern society. ©

  

If Life outweighs death, then it outweighs everything else.

And everything includes –without the list being exhaustive-, losses, physical or mental disabilities or defaults, fights, including the long term ones, diseases, heartbreaks, betrayals including from our closest ones, jobless periods, red budget periods and any other kind of difficulties that we always consider on the moment, as insurmountable.

None of the above situations is important compared to the fact of being alive and having around us these peoples that are dear to us, alive as well.

And if besides this, you are in a good health, if you can see the sun, the flowers, the clouds, the people you love, if you can appreciate the smell of the cooking rice, if you can feel your dog’s hair with your hands, the caress of your mother, if you can hear the rain fall, the music you like and the voice of your mother calling you, if you can remind these things that you have lived, if you can  imagine and draw in your mind as in the reality the ones that you wish to live… and if in addition, you have the opportunity to be surrounded by caring people who love, trust and believe in you, then before even planning to complain, learn to remember that if you have the chance to be alive, it is because Life has planned for you a thousand chances to face what is still waiting for you on the way in order to allow you to live your dreams.

So at each moment of your life, whenever you are playing, breathing, looking at things or feeling things and emotions, each one of your gestures, each slightest thing that you feel, see or hear is just the result of the dynamic and move of billion particles, cells and molecules. And this is the demonstration of one capital thing : YOU ARE ALIVE!

You have this wonderful capacity of breathing, to see things, to hear sounds, to feel emotions, to think, to do things. Living is something so powerfully magic, fantastic and wonderful that it is, to my perception, the most beautiful gift to humankind ever. And being aware of this is already an act of gratitude for it.

As mother, there are countless times where you made turn mad with your tempestuous and intense character, doing only what was forbidden. These times my energy was so low and my tolerance rate so feeble that I ton my brain a billion times wondering how to make you understand these things I needed you to. There were times when I even wanted to shake you up a hundred times until you said or did what you were supposed to answer or to do, and in the way you were meant to do it. And all these times, the only fact of looking at you so alive (no matter how important the values or lessons I needed you to understand, and no matter what top my anger or despair reached at these moments) was enough to remind me that nothing was more important than just seeing life blossoming through you. In each one of your mood, emotions, in your laughter and passion, in your flame or in your sleep, each single one of these moments were proofs of you being alive, and this is enough to fill me with happiness.

Actually, to the risk of being treated as bad mother, children may have all the imperfections and failings of the world, as long as they are alive, happy and having their thoughts and aspiration matching to their reality, or at least being able to think it, nothing else in the world can be more important.

When you have lost some dear ones in your life, sometimes many of them on a short period, this is a point of view that you understand in a particular way.

This is why today in my conception of life, there is LIFE. And all the rest is accessory. ©

Extract from "Leg à ma Fille", Cornélia ANDRIAMASY R. (under publication).

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The Life Outsiders

Our eyes are the reflection of our souls. It actually is hard to make the eyes cheat, at least on the long run. And if some may succeed to withstand a look while lying, with experience one can always detect the forced aspect in the glance. The fact is that in the principal basis of the Mathematical Laws of Life, what is not natural is always is always visible and noticeable. If you notice, the people showing off as too much kind, too much charitable, too much Christian or too much whatever, is always hiding somewhere a part of falsity.

On the contrary, the flame burning in the glance of the Life Outsiders is alive and authentic. In most of the cases, this flame has been increased by feelings of frustration and of misunderstanding in front of some life situations, by deceit, by these moments of experienced of noticed injustice, and in a major part, it has been animated by the lack of these persons and things that are vital for a living. 

This is how children, that have mentally grown up too rapidly, deprived of their parents, or raised by absent parents (physically or mentally), thee children forced to live in the shadow because the ray of light was temporarily destined to others, these people that had to provide a hundred times more efforts than the others all their life long, these persons who have used their nails in the dust in order to obtain merely the same results than others, and in general, anyone who lived during a long period in situations of insecurity and injustice… these people really lacked someone and something vital in their lives. So the moment they decide to get out of the shade, this gives more than simple sparkles.

Keep this flame burning in your eyes and keep on searching constantly for slightest ray of light and opening on your Dream Life.
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Now, the difference between these Life Outsider and any other people, is that during all their crossing of the desert, each moment of this barren spell was marked by their eyes scrutinizing each ray of light and looking for the tunnel exit. This flame in their eyes has been poked by this constant and nearly obsessional search for light and for exit on the outside world.

Their eyes, their minds and their souls have been solicited more than what is reasonably required from them, in the darkness, remaining on the lookout for the slightest ray of sun and opportunity of opening out to the world. These solicited senses have hence developed and become more performing.

Hence you can recognize a Life Outsiders from a countless number of things, but most of all, from their look and glance.

Be one of them Darling. Do not be afraid to lose, to be forgotten or to be groping in the dark. This is part of the journey. But as long as your eyes will be scrutinizing for the light and as long as you maintain your mindset in this constructive tendency, no one and nothing will be ever able to stand in your way or to hinder you from your life goals. ©

Extract from "Leg à ma Fille", Cornélia ANDRIAMASY R. (under publication).

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Rien n’est gravé dans la pierre que l’on ne puisse changer.

 Il y a sur le destin tellement d’opinions et croyances qu’en discuter peut parfois créer autant de conflits que discuter de politique ou de religion.

Or nos croyances à ce sujet modèlent notre mentalité, notre comportement et finalement, impacte sur notre manière de vivre et sur… notre destinée. J’ai connu beaucoup de personnes dans mon entourage qui travaillaient comme des bœufs dans les champs, et qui pourtant n’ont jamais bénéficié de leur dur labeur, et qui sont souvent restés dans un train de vie presque misérable. Et pourtant, je puis attester que la plupart sinon toutes ces personnes étaient des personnes de valeur, souvent plus courageuses, brillantes, intelligentes et généreuses que bien d’autres personnes que j’ai connues. Certaines de ces personnes m’étaient proches et c’est pourquoi ce genre de situations m’a affecté de manière particulière.

De cela, j’ai compris deux choses cruciales:

1- Quels que soient les niveaux d’intelligence, de compétence ou de réelle valeur intrinsèque, les croyances négatives sur la vie, le succès et l’argent ont le pouvoir de noyer des personnes au plus profond du trou, et cela n’apporte rien finalement d’autre qu’un énorme gâchis de potentiel.

2- Travailler pour vivre est louable. Cela permet de développer des valeurs basées sur l’effort, sur le respect de la Vie et sur le respect de ces choses dont nous disposons, dont le travail. Mais à moins d’y ajouter un minimum de passion et surtout de curiosité sur soi-même et sur son potentiel, cela peut parfois contribuer à tuer doucement la vie. Je ne parle pas de la vie physique, mais de cette vie intérieure, celle qui normalement se reflète dans notre regard et dans nos sourires lorsque l’on apprécie la vie

C’est pourquoi il est vital d’investir en soi, d’investir dans des projets qui nous tiennent à cœur, qui nous passionne et allume notre vie, peu importe notre activité professionnelle déjà en cours.

Et depuis que survivre dans ce monde est intimement lié aujourd’hui à l’argent, l’intelligence est de considérer cette donne comme une nouvelle règle de jeu à prendre en considération. En bref, depuis que l’argent fait partie du quotidien, il s’agit ni plus ni moins d’une ressource au même titre que toutes les autres ressources dont nous faisons usage au quotidien (téléphone, voiture, appareils électroménager, nouvelles technologies, etc.). Si donc il s’agit d’une ressource, il est « normal » de le considérer comme tel et de pouvoir en bénéficier sans culpabilité (sans verser dans l’extrême opposé ce qui est encore plus nuisible au bien être).  

Travaillez, prenez de la peine, c’est le fond qui manque le moins donc… mais aussi travaillez, prenez du plaisir et sachez profiter ou exiger de bénéficier de ce que votre dur labeur est supposé vous apporter.

  

“Les choses arrivent pour une raison”…  mais pour lesquelles au juste ?

Ces situations de déséquilibre entre efforts et bénéfices, qui sont très fréquents dans l’hémisphère du monde d’où je viens, m’ont poussé à m’interroger sérieusement sur le fonctionnement du destin. Elevée dans un pays et un milieu « Chrétien », j’ai souvent entendu parler dans mon enfance de destinée toute tracée par un Dieu Tout Puissant qui décidait pour chacun de sa destination, et du danger de sortir de ces voies toutes tracées pour nous au risque de braver une colère divine désastreuse pour l’avenir de celui qui oserait. Et je dois dire que cela ne m’a pas réellement aidé à me faire une opinion positive de cette Force Divine.

En grandissant, et au fur et à mesure de mes recherches personnelles, j’ai lu et appris d’autres choses plus surprenantes encore sur le destin, comme la faculté pour chacun de disposer de son propre destin. Puis j’ai vu les stratégies de ces coachs qui surfaient allègrement sur la naïveté générale pour en vivre généreusement, avec parfois des affirmations, des méthodes et procédés toutes faites et standardisées qui parfois pouvaient friser le ridicule. Cela ne m’a pas plus aidée à me faire une idée de ce qu’était au fond réellement le destin.

La vraie vérité sur le destin est celle dont chacun est personnellement convaincu. Crédit image: Pixabay.

Aujourd’hui, après des années à tenter d’en comprendre le fonctionnement, j’ai finalement compris la vérité autour du destin. Elle est celle que chacun lui donne. Ce que nous en pensons intimement est notre vérité, qu’elle colle ou non avec notre éducation, avec notre religion ou avec notre environnement. Il n’y a donc pas une vérité autour du destin, mais bien autant de vérités qu’il n’y a de convictions sur le sujet.

Car ce n’est finalement qu’ainsi que les pièces du puzzle, de notre puzzle, se mettent à leur place.

Maintenant, si chaque vérité est basée sur des expériences et vécus personnels, elle est également faite d’autres vérités croisées sur la route.

Aussi pour résumer, on pourrait dire que la vérité sur le destin est celle que l’on s‘en fait mélangée à d’autres vérités qui résonnent avec la nôtre.

Toutefois, le mystère reste entier sur ce que pourrait être globalement le destin dans sa vraie réalité: pré-tracé pour nous où au contraire dessiné par nos soins ?

Des millions de citations et de pensés, ainsi qu’une perception globale du sujet, tendent vers l’axiome suivant : toutes les choses arrivent pour une raison spécifique.

Et si cela ne semble pas répondre à la question, je ne pense qu’il n’y ait qu’une seule vérité autour de cela non plus. Et globalement, je pense que le destin est composé d’un petit peu de chemin pré-tracé et d’une grande partie de chemin à tracer soi-même.

Car si effectivement tout arrive pour une raison, notre présence sur terre en a donc une. Chacun de nous a donc une mission pré tracée en contre partie de son existence. Mais parallèlement, il nous revient d’en définir les modalités et autres détails de parcours, ce qui inclut parfois, voire souvent, la destination de notre destinée (jeu de mots involontaire). Et que note destinée soit tracée à l’avance ou non, dans les deux cas, elle est liée à des cycles et à des interactions humaines et de décision qui souvent, jouent un rôle capital dans le cours de notre vie.

Le libre arbitre est la preuve qu’une destinée ne peut être juste que pré-tracée.

Si l’on considère donc qu’une destinée est composée d’un peu de pré-écrit et de beaucoup de choses à écrire par nous-mêmes, en quoi pourraient consister chacune de ces deux parties ?

Pour commencer, la partie pré-écrite concerne la mission commune à tout être humain 1) par rapport aux autres et 2) par rapport à lui-même, peut importe les délais et les manières dont cette contribution est exécutée.

On pourrait dire que cette partie pré-écrite concerne ce travail sur nous-mêmes pour identifier quelle pièce du puzzle universel nous représentons, quelle est notre utilité, notre mission de vie, en bref ce que l’on peut apporter aux autres à travers notre existence.

Tandis que la partie à écrire par nous-mêmes consiste, après avoir identifié notre pièce de puzzle dans la partie pré-écrite, à placer correctement cette pièce à sa place dans le puzzle universel. Et là aussi, peut importe le temps, la manière ou l’énergie que cela peut prendre, l’essentiel n’est pas de placer la pièce avant les autres ou mieux que les autres, mais bien de la placer correctement. Puis une fois que cette pièce est enfin casée à la place où elle doit être, alors on peut légitimement considérer que l’on a émotionnellement, matériellement et mentalement réussi sa vie. Tout ce qui vient après n’est alors que bonus et agrément pour faire briller cette pièce et la rendre la plus utile et agréable possible à regarder.

Lorsque l’on vit pleinement ces petits instants de nos vies avec tous nos sens, avec notre esprit et notre âme, nous nous rapprochons de l’emplacement de notre pièce du puzzle universel. C’est ce qui donne cette impression de bien-être, de se sentir comme à la maison, dans une espèce de confort mental agréable et réconfortant, et plus l’on se rapproche de l’emplacement de notre pièce et plus cette impression s’amplifie.

Le prix de la sécurité sera toujours plus cher que celui du risque payant. Crédit image: Pixabay.

Maintenant, concernant ce côté prétendument immuable du fonctionnement de destin, il est une chose à comprendre. Nous avons tous ou presque été dotés de la liberté de choisir et de faire ce que nous considérons nécessaire dans notre vie. Nous sommes tous ou presque, dotés de la capacité de penser ou d’avoir les croyances que nous estimons véridiques et utiles, et nous avons tous ou presque, l’habilité de devenir la personne que nous souhaitons devenir si nous nous autorisons à le devenir.

Et normalement ceci est assez pour prouver que le tracé de notre vie ne peut pas être que prédéfini. Car ce concept du libre arbitre ne peut logiquement et objectivement concorder avec l’affirmation que nos destinées sont tracées bien avant notre existence. Ce libre arbitre est au contraire l’indication que nous pouvons changer de direction si cela nous semble nécessaire, et nous pouvons le faire autant de fois que nous le jugerons nécessaire.

Par conséquent, peut importe la puissance de nos croyances, la durée de certaines relations (souvent considérées comme inamovibles) ou de la situation dans laquelle nous nous trouvons,  nous bénéficions en tant qu’être humain du plus luxueux cadeau qui soit : la capacité de décider de la direction que nous souhaitons donner à notre vie.

Je ne dis pas que ce genre de décisions est simple ou funky, ou que diriger sa vie dans le bon sens n’entraîne ni perte ni peine. Mais comme pour tout, le plus dur est souvent au début du processus avant de vivre le plaisir et la satisfaction.

Car diriger sa vie en direction de là où notre pièce du puzzle est prévue être casée est un risque, payant certes mais risque quand même, ce qui est souvent assez pour démotiver la majorité qui préfèrera le confort de la médiocrité.

Mais s’il y a un prix à payer pour les risques que l’on prend, il y en a un nettement plus grand pour les décisions et les risques que l’on ne prend pas. Le coût de la sécurité sera toujours plus élevé que celui du saut. Car que cela soit en terme de santé physique ou mentale ou en terme de bonheur et de satisfaction, choisir d’écrire soi-même le cours de sa vie est porteur de véritables valeurs ajoutées. Tandis que, tout comme les épargnes non valorisées  sont créatrices de pauvreté, un parcours de vie non valorisé entraîne une mort intérieure et la plus grande inutilité. Et le fait que la majorité décide de choisir la voie de la sécurité ne signifie en rien que cette voie est le standard de normes à suivre. Sans compter que si tout standard ou toute norme peut être modifié, déplacé ou ignoré, en termes de réalisation d’objectifs personnels il n’existe ni normes ni standard à suivre.   

Tant que l’on est en vie, il reste toujours une chance de faire aboutir ces choses qui nous tiennent à cœur.

Tant que l’on est en vie il reste toujours un moyen de faire aboutir les choses Crédit image.

Pour ce qui me concerne, j’ai compris l’impact personnel que j’avais sur ma destinée lorsque j’ai finalement fini par accomplir de manière étonnante, ces chose pour lesquelles je m’étais toujours crue incapable auparavant. J’ai compris comment des mots bons ou mauvais, des situations bonnes ou mauvaises, des attitudes, etc. peuvent nous propulser en avant tant que nous acceptons que ces détails ne sont ni plus ni moins des éléments d’un jeu géant auquel nous jouons. Les personnes que nous côtoyons, les situations que nous traversons sont que les éléments d’un gigantesque échiquier à savoir gérer en termes d’approche et de perception. C’est pourquoi dans cette optique, rien n’est à prendre personnellement car chaque situation bonne ou mauvaise que nous traversons, n’est destinée qu’à nous rapprocher un peu plus encore de notre accomplissement personnel (plus facile à dire qu’à faire, je suis d’accord).

En conclusion, si l’ossature de notre destinée est peut-être prédéfinie, pour le reste, rien n’est gravé dans le marbre que l’on ne puisse changer.  

Quoi qu’ils disent de vos incapacités, de votre manque de connaissances, de vos moyens matériels ou de votre situation familiale, et quelle que soit votre position sociale ou professionnelle, vos possessions ou vos aptitudes… tant que vous avez cette chance d’être en vie, il vous reste des milliards de chances pour faire aboutir les chose qui vous tiennent à cœur.

La santé, le cerveau, l’âme, tout comme l’argent et les biens matériels, doivent être considérés, appréciés, estimés et optimisés au plus haut de leurs valeurs pour être profitables et utiles. Et le processus est exactement le même pour ce qui est de la Vie, des potentiels et d’une destinée. ©

Cornélia ANDRIAMASY RABEMANANJARA

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Undefeated.

This is a little foray in the thoughts of these illustrious people, great men and women who went like any one of us, through tough times and difficulties. 

And no matter how heavy and painful their paths looked like (especially seen for the outside), they would just face it everyday as a daily (hard) reality to go through for the moment until these better periods they permanently clang to. 

This is why in the balance sheet at the end of the day, their determination to get their revenge on life and their thirst for mental freedom propelled their success and/or their wisdom in the most extraordinary way.

This is when you turn the tears, the shame, hurt, the pain, the questions and the frustration you went through into an inner power which is powerful to the point that it makes you take off to the highest grounds. ©

 Invictus

Out of the night that covers me, 

      Black as the pit from pole to pole, 

I thank whatever gods may be 

      For my unconquerable soul. 

In the fell clutch of circumstance 

      I have not winced nor cried aloud. 

Under the bludgeonings of chance 

      My head is bloody, but unbowed. 

Beyond this place of wrath and tears 

      Looms but the Horror of the shade, 

And yet the menace of the years 

      Finds and shall find me unafraid. 

It matters not how strait the gate, 

      How charged with punishments the scroll, 

I am the master of my fate, 

      I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley

1875 

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